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Don't Manipulate Situations

 Just accept things the way they are.  Hold your hand up to your mistake, such as the social media. Let people have their points to say about you. Let them discipline you/fire you. Solution: Find a workplace where you can be yourself. Where people can approach you And you won't be judged for your bubbiliness. Or indirect racism of your behaviour, such as we can't approach you/tainting your name. Get a 2nd job.
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Spend time with those who respect your phobia

  My Brother: Spend time with him to sort out the bank! Make a list with him beforehand 
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Narcassistic Family Members

  My Sister: She lacks respect for me and addresses me I a confrontational tone. I dislike her mannerism and I'm not gonna be nice, just to be talked to back like that- she needs to learn some manners. Solution: Spend less time in the house. Use social media to help create the life of your future. I.e- going out yourself to drop off the parcels. Just take yourself out a lot!
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Gaslighting and Lies

 I don't want to be in a meeting where people tell lies on me. I would just rather have a disciplinary and a discussion to squash the feelings of those hurt by the social media post. Stay away from those who lie and have minimal contact with them. Your name is being tainted and its a spiritual attack. It is all because you have a relationship with God and you must keep pursuing that!
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Guilt Trip & Manipulation

 It annoys me how my so-called family, does not respect my aphobia, narcissistic family members. If I'm scared of a cat, do not guilt trip me into not letting it into the house. It is not my responsibility and I am not the owner of the cat! Solution: on work days, dinner, bath and lounge in bedroom! What is it that you are doing in your life to attract/reinforce this behaviour? Who are the people that respect that you have this aphobia? Spend a week with them!
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